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Rudolph Rigger's avatar

Bravo, Sir!

That was an utterly magnificent piece.

I've been writing about this for some time, trying to lessen my own confusion. Heck, I can't even make proper sense of what "gender" is - and certainly the definitions of the word all rely on the existence of the natural sex binary.

You've really crystallised a few things for me with this piece.

Once again, simply magnificent.

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Friki's avatar

"Stereotypically feminine-acting boys and stereotypically masculine-acting girls are perfectly normal, and it’s a common phase for such children to experience some degree of confusion or distress about the concept of sex as they grow up, because their first awareness of it comes via distinguishing behavioural patterns — stereotypes — between the sexes. The deeper meanings of male and female are a lesson that comes later. As these naturally stereotype-defying kids integrate into society, they face a challenging decision: to try to fit in, or to try to take pride in having maverick personality traits that might put them at odds with traditionalists."

Yes, it is hard for parents to have kids like that. It makes it infinitely worse that gender ideology has become part of the bullying they experience. When I was a kid, the swishes got a real hard time, but the tomboys got left alone. Today, it's _worse_: people won't just say the boy is gay, they'll say he isn't a boy at all. Try going through middle school with the jocks telling you you're a girl, and then going online and asking "am I really a girl" and getting groomed into transgenderism by the internet, your teachers, and your doctors. You bet they're angry if they escape the cult.

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